Somehow or rather when you start to fall in love,there's many stupid things you can do for him/her. Sacrifice everything cuz of love. Its really an amazing thing,and in fact so powerful,so.. deadly ? haa.. Nowadays i've seen many breakups within my circle of friends.. and its somehow getting on a trend ?and somehow i feel that there's no right or wrong in their decisions.People may see that they're evil or being unfaithful.But seriously,i say its for the sake of the other party.Why dwell on a relationship thats deteriorating and when you're making no effort in balancing it ?Can't you see its(the love) dying off ? Its the simple fact. If you dont have the motivation or the willingness to balance it back,why dwell on it ? it will just keeps on hurting the other party.And thats why every relationship will have to quarrel everyday being wadever reasons even small reasons,small issues. Its a never-ending stuffs ya know ? Unless, they willingly,and not to mention the love still exist within each other,wants the relationship to be at its best state.If not,counting on just one person is just not enough. And can you guys imagine? A friend of mine( no names shall be mentioned ) with around 6 yrs of relationship if im not wrong can just broke off just like that. And the reasons for breaking up ? well.. its a secret or should i say i haven't seek his permission to say it in my blog.haa.. Guys.. If you think your relationship is too dull or even too smooth-going( note: smooth-going as in no quarrels,no ups and downs.it may be a bad sign too. ),PLEASE do something about it if you still wants to be with him/her.If not,PLEASE do have a heart to heart talk and resolve the situation,being if the outcome came out + or - cuz everyday you will face problems.If you do not solve it today,you'll only accumulate more problems as everyday there's definitely problems.And problems are meant to be solved,not to be kept.
And at the end of the day,ask yourself this question. Is love that amazing and this powerful ? ( note: there's no definite answer in this.Touch your heart and search your souls. ) And then there's this question suggested by my friend.Its rather an effective one consider my friend always talk so much cock.Lol.. he said: "When does your girlfriend last initiate a kiss ?" It really left the person facing the question pondering. Sometimes its those little things that you initiate that will brighten up the relationship a little. And Girls,don't always expect guys to make the first move.Guys gets bored easily. And don't expect us guys to always give you a surprise. We guys love surprises too and even if its KINDER SURPRISE ! ( just kidding tho. thats my childhood favourite choc =/ ) And the bottom line is.. it takes 2 hands to clap. and it takes 2 hands to mould a beautiful and steady sandcastle. And WOW ! i've just finish saying everything within my heart and that makes this a copyright from stepfan ( :
P.S : Im not a perfect guy. Just someone who have seen quite alot in life and of cuz there's more ppl who have seen even more things in life ( :
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